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• Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.

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  Wise, Running, Art

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• As I noticed feelings and thoughts appear and disappear, it became increasingly clear that they were just coming and going on their own. . . . There was no sense of a self owning them.

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  Self, Feelings, Disappear

  Tara Brach (2012). “Radical Acceptance: Awakening the Love that Heals Fear and Shame”, p.120, Random House

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• Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.

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  Desire, Acting, Radical Acceptance

  Tara Brach (2012). “Radical Acceptance: Awakening the Love that Heals Fear and Shame”, p.158, Random House

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• When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.

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  Imperfection, Being Different, Relax

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• Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.

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  Encounters, May, Path

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• The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.

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  Kindness, Heart, Our World

  Source: www.psychologytoday.com

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• As we free ourselves from the suffering of 'something is wrong with me, 'we trust and express the fullness of who we are.'

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  Suffering, Who We Are, Fullness

  Tara Brach (2012). “Radical Acceptance: Awakening the Love that Heals Fear and Shame”, p.4, Random House

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• The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.

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  Relax, Safe, Messages

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• Stories about ourselves and about the world continually arise in our minds and shape our beliefs about reality.

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  Reality, Mind, Stories

  Source: www.tarabrach.com

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• Feelings and stories of unworthiness and shame are perhaps the most binding element in the trance of fear. When we believe something is wrong with us, we are convinced we are in danger. Our shame fuels ongoing fear, and our fear fuels more shame. The very fact that we feel fear seems to prove that we are broken or incapable. When we are trapped in trance, being fearful and bad seem to define who we are. The anxiety in our body, the stories, the ways we make excuses, withdraw or lash out—these become to us the self that is most real.

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  Real, Believe, Self

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• Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.

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  Buddhist, Pain, Believe

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• Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.

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  Self, Years, Roots

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• Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.

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  Suffering, Desire, Ends

  Source: www.psychologytoday.com

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• Offer some gesture of kindness to yourself. Sometimes it's just a message, to say: "It's okay. You're going to be okay. We've been through this before." The intention is reassurance, that you are not alone and you can do this. It is the most powerful way to come out of what I call the "trance of unworthiness."

  Tara Brach

  Powerful, Kindness, Gestures

  Source: www.washingtonpost.com

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• Meditation can change the flavor of the season.

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  Meditation, Flavor, Seasons

  Source: www.washingtonpost.com

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• Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person's vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that's very fluid and graceful.

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  Moving, Space, Together

  Source: www.psychologytoday.com

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• My prayer became 'May I find peace... May I love this life no matter what.' I was seeking an inner refuge, an experience of presence and wholeness that could carry me through whatever losses might come.

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  Prayer, Loss, May

  "Where Do We Find Peace and Freedom? An Interview With Tara Brach, Ph.D". Interview with Elisha Goldstein, www.huffingtonpost.com. February 14, 2013.

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• What would it be like if, right in the midst of this busyness, we were to consciously take our hands off the controls? What if we were to intentionally stop our mental computations and our rushing around and, for a minute or two, simply pause and notice our inner experience?

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  Hands, Two, Rushing

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• People don't behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.

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  People, Feelings, Stressed

  Source: www.washingtonpost.com

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• Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.

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  Spiritual, Compassion, Self

  Tara Brach (2013). “True Refuge: Finding Peace and Freedom in Your Own Awakened Heart”, p.163, Bantam

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• People have to find their rhythm. Some people have need for more contact and time together and some people need more space.

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  Space, People, Together

  Source: www.psychologytoday.com

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• The way to develop the habit of savoring is to pause when something is beautiful and good and catches our attention - the sound of rain, the look of the night sky - the glow in a child's eyes, or when we witness some kindness. Pause... then totally immerse in the experience of savoring it.

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  Beautiful, Children, Kindness

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• In bullfighting there is an interesting parallel to the pause as a place of refuge and renewal. It is believed that in the midst of a fight, a bull can find his own particular area of safety in the arena. There he can reclaim his strength and power. This place and inner state are called his querencia. As long as the bull remains enraged and reactive, the matador is in charge. Yet when he finds his querencia, he gathers his strength and loses his fear. From the matador's perspective, at this point the bull is truly dangerous, for he has tapped into his power.

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  Fighting, Long, Safety

  Tara Brach (2012). “Radical Acceptance: Awakening the Love that Heals Fear and Shame”, p.64, Random House

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• Discovering a richer quality of being-ness means to keep surrendering and letting go of resistance.

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  Letting Go, Mean, Quality

  Source: www.psychologytoday.com

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• The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to "the sweetness of belonging," is acceptance - acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.

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  Acceptance, Path, Judgment

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