Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren't always comfortable, but they're never weakness.
If we can share our story with someone who responds with empathy and understanding, shame can't survive.
Self-compassion is key because when we're able to be gentle with ourselves in the midst of shame, we're more likely to reach out, connect, and experience empathy.
Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability, and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.
Empathy doesn't require that we have the exact same experiences as the person sharing their story with us...Empathy is connecting with the emotion that someone is experiencing, not the event or the circumstance.
If you put shame in a petri dish, it needs three ingredients to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence, and judgment. If you put the same amount of shame in the petri dish and douse it with empathy, it can't survive.
Empathy is the antidote to shame.
Empathy fuels connection; sympathy drives disconnection.
We are hardwired to connect with others, it's what gives purpose and meaning to our lives, and without it there is suffering.
Love is a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them - we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.
If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.
Trust is a product of vulnerability that grows over time and requires work, attention, and full engagement.
Shame derives its power from being unspeakable...If we speak shame, it begins to wither. Just the way exposure to light was deadly for the gremlins, language and story bring light to shame and destroy it.
There really is "no effort without error and shortcoming" and there really is no triumph without vulnerability.
Shame cannot survive being spoken. It cannot survive empathy.
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