When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.
The act of compassion begins with full attention, just as rapport does. You have to really see the person. If you see the person, then naturally, empathy arises. If you tune into the other person, you feel with them. If empathy arises, and if that person is in dire need, then empathic concern can come. You want to help them, and then that begins a compassionate act. So I'd say that compassion begins with attention.
Deep listening is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suffering of another person. You can call it compassionate listening. You listen with only one purpose: to help him or her to empty his heart.
It is the province of knowledge to speak, and it is the privilege of wisdom to listen.
True kindness presupposes the faculty of imagining as one's own the suffering and joys of others.
The opposite of anger is not calmness, its empathy.
My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style
If you think ahead to what to say next - like how to fix it or make the person feel better - BOOM! Off the board. You're into the future. Empathy requires staying with the energy that's here right now. Not using any technique. Just being present. When I have really connected to this energy, it's like I wasn't there. I call this "watching the magic show". In this presence, a very precious energy works through us that can heal anything, and this relieves me from my "fix-it" tendencies.
I think empathy is a beautiful thing. I think that's the power of film though. We have one of the most powerful, one of the greatest communicative tools known to man.
The art of listening needs its highest development in listening to oneself; our most important task is to develop an ear that can really hear what we're saying.
Yet, taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe.
When I get ready to talk to people, I spend two thirds of the time thinking what they want to hear and one third thinking about what I want to say.
Ten people who speak make more noise than ten thousand who are silent.
Love is that enviable state that knows no envy or vanity, only empathy and a longing to be greater than oneself.
The hearing that is only in the ears is one thing. The hearing of the understanding is another. But the hearing of the spirit is not limited to any one faculty to the ear, or to the mind.
Hence it demands the emptiness of all the faculties. And when the faculties are empty, then the whole being listens. There is then a direct grasp of what is right there before you that can never be heard with the ear or understood with the mind.
Only by examining our personal biases can we truly grow as artists; only by cultivating empathy can we truly grow as people.
I'm cursed with empathy. I'm also by nature way too opinionated.
Empathy takes time, and efficiency is for things, not people.
The world doesn't just revolve around you. There's a lot of talk in this country about the federal deficit. But I think we should talk more about our empathy deficit.
All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.
If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.
I call him religious who understands the suffering of others.
Learning a foreign language, and the culture that goes with it, is one of the most useful things we can do to broaden the empathy and imaginative sympathy and cultural outlook of children.
If I'm talking to someone in a crowded room, I try to make this person feel as though we're the only ones present. I shut out everything else. I look directly at the person. Even if a gorilla were to walk into the room, I probably wouldn't notice it.
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