No psychologist should pretend to understand what he does not understand... Only fools and charlatans know everything and understand nothing.
Many cognitive psychologists see the brain as a computer. But every single brain is absolutely individual, both in its development and in the way it encounters the world.
Many psychiatrists and psychologists refuse to entertain the idea that society as a whole may be lacking in sanity. They hold that the problem of mental health in a society is only that of the number of 'unadjusted' individuals, and not of a possible unadjustment of the culture itself.
Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.
We meet ourselves time and again in a thousand disguises on the path of life.
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
I am always impressed by the fact that even the tiniest amount of being listened to, the barest suggestion of the possibility of kind treatment, can bring such an immediate rush of emotion. I think this is because we are almost never really listened to. In my work as a psychologist, I am reminded every day of how infrequently we are heard, any of us, or our actions even marginally understood. And one of the ironies of my "listening profession" is its lesson that, in many ways, each of us ultimately remains a mystery to everyone else.
The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination.
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
Psychology is much bigger than just medicine, or fixing unhealthy things. Its about education, work, marriage - its even about sports. What I want to do is see psychologists working to help people build strengths in all these domains.
The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases.
Psychologists tell us we think 50,000 thoughts a day...between 1,000 and 5,000 thoughts in a single hour. Many of those thoughts are about ourselves and about our performance, about our lovability, our capability and our significance. So the key is to control those thoughts, making certain they're always positive.
A shoe that fits one person pinches another.
Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
I'm an armchair psychologist, I suppose, and I like to kind of sit around and guess and pretend I know what's going on.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol or morphine or idealism.
Time and rest are needed for absorption. Psychologists confirm that it is really in the summer that our muscles learn to skate and in the winter, how to swim.
God seems willing to act as the most sublime psychologist, psychotherapist, or even psychiatrist if we are willing.
Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.
If the only tool you have is a hammer, it's hard to eat spaghetti.
Economists think about what people ought to do. Psychologists watch what they actually do.
One of the things psychologists used to say was that if you are depressed, anxious or angry, you couldn't be happy. Those were at opposite ends of a continuum. I believe that you can be suffering or have a mental illness and be happy - just not in the same moment that you're sad.
No book can teach you about yourself, no psychologist, none of the professors or philosophers. What they can teach you is what they think you are or what they think you should be.
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