Caroline Knapp Quotes - Page 2

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• Alcoholism is the disease of more.

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  Alcohol, Disease, Alcoholism

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.57, Dial Press

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• I am shy by nature, a person who's always found something burdensome about human interaction and who probably always will, at least to some degree.

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  Degrees, Shy, Found

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• Our culture thrives on black-and-white narratives, clearly defined emotions, easy endings, and so, this thrust into complexity exhausts.

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  Black And White, Culture, Narrative

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• When you love somebody, or something, its amazing how willing you are to overlook the flaws.

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  Flaws, Willing

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.10, Dial Press

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• Why do I find the fantasy - husband, family, kids - exhausting instead of alluring? Is there something wrong with me? Do I have a life?

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  Husband, Kids, Fantasy

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• Mastery over the body - its impulses, its needs, its size - is paramount; to lose control is to risk beauty, and to risk beauty is to risk desirability, and to risk desirability is to risk entitlement to sexuality and love and self-esteem.

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  Self Esteem, Risk, Size

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• I'm 38 and I'm single, and I'm having my most intense and gratifying relationship with a dog. But we all learn about love in different ways, and this way happens to be mine.

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  Dog, Different, Way

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• Was he smart enough? Introspective enough? Was it just enough to love him, or should I attach myself to someone who seemed farther ahead of me, someone smarter and more ambitious than me, who'd be sure to carry me along into the version of adulthood I thought I should be striving for?

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  Smart, Ambitious, Enough

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• Around the time I began starving, in the early eighties, the visual image had begun to supplant text as culture's primary mode of communication, a radical change because images work so differently than words: They're immediate, they hit you at levels way beneath intellect, they come fast and furious.

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  Communication, Culture, Levels

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• Love—the desire to love and be loved, to hold and be held, to give love even if your experience as a recipient has been compromised or incomplete—is the constant on the continuum of hunger, it's what links the anorexic to the garden-variety dieter, it's the persistent pulse of need and yearning behind the reach for food, for sex, for something.

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  Sex, Garden, Giving

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• Something is missing: that's as close as I can come to naming the sensation, an awareness of missed or thwarted connections, or of a great hollowness left where something lovely and solid used to be. ...There is something fundamentally insatiable about being human, as though we come into the world with a kind of built-in tension between the experience of being hungry, which is a condition of striving and yearning, and the experience of being fed, which may offer temporary satisfaction but always gives way to new strivings, new yearnings.

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  Giving, Missing, Lovely

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• When you quit drinking you stop waiting.

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  Inspirational, Drinking, Sobriety

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.263, Dial Press

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• American companies spend more than $200 billion each year hacking women's bodies into bits and pieces, urging comparisons between self and other, linking value to air-brushed ideals, and as the girls in my seventh-grade class graduated to high school and beyond, the imagery around us would only grow more specific, more pummeling, more insidious.

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  Girl, School, Air

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• You'll reach into your wallet to brandish a photograph of a new puppy, and a friend will say, 'Oh, no - not pictures.

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  Puppy, Photograph, Wallets

  Caroline Knapp (2010). “Pack of Two: The Intricate Bond Between People and Dogs”, p.9, Dial Press

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• Academic achievement was something I'd always sought as a form of reward. Good grades pleased my parents, good grades pleased my teachers; you got them in order to sew up approval.

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  Teacher, Order, Achievement

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.91, Dial Press

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• My recipe for bliss on a Friday night consists of a 'New York Times' crossword puzzle and a new episode of 'Homicide;' Saturdays and Sundays are oriented around walks in the woods with the dog, human companion in tow some of the time but not always.

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  Friday, Dog, New York

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• It happened this way: I fell in love and then, because the love was ruining everything I cared about, I had to fall out.

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  Fall, Way, Ruining Everything

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.9, Dial Press

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• I'm still prone to periods of isolation, still more fearful of the world out there and more averse to pleasure and risk than I'd like to be; I still direct more energy toward controlling and minimizing appetites than toward indulging them.

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  Risk, Energy, World

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• Solitude is a breeding ground for idiosyncrasy, and I relish that about it, the way it liberates whim.

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  Solitude, Way, Breeding

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• The key, I suppose, has less to do with insight than with willingness, the former being relatively useless without the latter.

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  Keys, Useless, Latter

  Caroline Knapp (2004). “Appetites: Why Women Want”, p.191, Counterpoint Press

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• Smooth and ordered on the outside; roiling and chaotic and desperately secretive underneath, but not noticeably so, never noticeably so.

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  Smooth, Chaotic, Secretive

  Caroline Knapp (1999). “Drinking: A Love Story”, p.11, Dial Press

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• By definition, memoir demands a certain degree of introspection and self-disclosure: In order to fully engage a reader, the narrator has to make herself known, has to allow her own self-awareness to inform the events she describes.

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  Self, Order, Narrators

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• Me, I walk along and feel quietly defensive, a recluse in the Land of We. That's quite the loaded word, 'we.

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  Land, Recluse, Walks

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• On the broad spectrum of solitude, I lean toward the extreme end: I work alone, as well as live alone, so I can pass an entire day without uttering so much as a hello to another human being. Sometimes a day's conversation consists of only five words, uttered at the local Starbucks: 'Large coffee with milk, please.

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  Coffee, Solitude, Milk

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• When I drank, the part that felt dangerous and needy grew bright and strong and real. The part that coveted love kicked into gear. The yes grew louder than the no.

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  Strong, Real, Alcohol

  Caroline Knapp (1996). “Drinking: A Love Story”, Bantam Dell Publishing Group

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