Madeleine de Souvre, marquise de Sable Quotes

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• There are people so blind and self-absorbed in all matters that they always believe that, whatever they desire or think, they can impose their will on other people. Whatever bad reason they use to persuade others, these self-centered people are so caught up in the process that it seems to them all they have to do is to speak their wishes in a lofty and commanding tone of voice in order to convince everybody.

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  Believe, Thinking, Self

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• Often the desire to appear competent impedes our ability to become competent, because we more anxious to display our knowledge than to learn what we do not know.

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  Learning, Desire, Anxious

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• In knowledge of human affairs, we should never allow our minds to be enslaved by others by subjecting ourselves to their whims. We must maintain freedom of thought, and never accept anything of purely human authority into our heads. When we are presented with a diversity of opinions, we must choose, if we can; if we cannot, we must remain in doubt.

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  Diversity, Doubt, Mind

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• Mean-spirited mediocrities, especially those with a smattering of learning, are the most likely to be opinionated. Only strong minds know how to correct their opinions and abandon a bad position.

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  Strong, Mean, Learning

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• Pettiness of mind, ignorance and presumption are the cause of stubbornness, because stubborn people only want to believe what they themselves can imagine, and they can imagine very few things.

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  Believe, Ignorance, People

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• It is vain and useless to survey everything that goes on in the world if our study does not help us mend our ways.

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  Doe, Goes On, Useless

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• We think highly of men when we do not know the extent of their capabilities, for we always suppose that more exists when we only see half.

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  Men, Thinking, Half

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• Social intercourse, even friendship among most people, is a merely a business arrangement that lasts only so long as there is need.

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  Business, Long, People

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• When an opinionated person starts to challenge something, his mind shuts out all that could clear up the matter. The argument irritates him, however just it might be, and it seems that he is afraid of discovering the truth.

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  Truth, Challenges, Mind

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• It is a singular characteristic of love that we cannot hide it where it exists, or pretend it where it does not exist.

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  Love, Doe, Characteristics

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• To be too dissatisfied with ourselves is a weakness. To be too satisfied with ourselves is a stupidity.

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  Stupid, Weakness, Satisfied

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• It is a very common failing, never to be pleased with our fortune nor displeased with our character.

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  Failure, Character, Common

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• Sometimes we praise the way things used to be in order to blame the present, and we esteem what is no longer in order to scorn what is.

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  Order, Way, Blame

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• We learn as much by others' failings as by their teachings. Examples of imperfection is just as useful for achieving perfection as are models of competence and perfection.

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  Teaching, Perfection, Example

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• He who uses trickery should at least make use of his judgment to learn that he can scarcely hide treacherous conduct for very long among clever men who are determined to find him out, although they may pretend to be deceived in order to disguise their knowledge of his deceitfulness.

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  Clever, Learning, Men

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• We prefer people who are trying to imitate us more than those who are trying to equal us. This is because imitation is a sign of esteem, but the desire to equal others is a sign of envy.

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  People, Envy, Desire

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• Criticism should awaken our attention, not inflame our anger. We should listen to, and not flee from, those who contradict us. Truth should be our cause, no matter in what manner it comes to us.

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  Listening, Criticism, Attention

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• There is a certain manner of self-absorption in speaking that always renders the speaker disagreeable. For it is as great a folly to listen only to ourselves while we are carrying on a conversation with others as it is to talk to ourselves while we are alone.

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  Self, Listening, Carrying On

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• We are more put off by people who parade their dignity than by people who show off their wardrobes. When people have to trick themselves out to gain attention, it is a sure sign that they are unworthy of it. If we want to make ourselves worthy, we can do so only by the innate eminence conferred by virtue. We hold great people in esteem more for the qualities of their soul than for the qualities of their fortune.

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  People, Soul, Quality

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• The ties of virtue ought to be closer than the ties of blood, since the good man is closer to another good man by their similarity of morals than the son is to his father by their similarity of face.

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  Father, Son, Men

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• There are many people who are so inclined to say "no" that the "no" always precedes whatever we say to them. This negative quality makes them so disagreeable that, even if they do what we want them to or agree with what we say, they always lose the pleasure that they might have received had they not started off so badly.

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  People, Quality, Negative

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• There is no one who cannot derive great help and great benefit from learning; but there are also only a few people who do not receive a great harm from the light and knowledge they have received by learning, unless they use their knowledge in a manner both fit and natural for them.

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  Learning, Light, People

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• Instead of taking care to acquaint ourselves with others, we only think of making ourselves known to them. It would be better to listen to other people in order to become enlightened rather than to speak so as to shine in front of them.

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  Thinking, Order, People

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• There is little advantage in pleasing ourselves when we please no one else, for our great self-love is often chastised by the scorn of others.

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  Love, Self, Littles

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• We often value the exterior and superficial aspect of things more than their inner reality. Bad manners taint everything even justice and reason. The 'how' of things matters most, and even the most disagreeable matters can be sweetened and gilded over with the proper appearance. Such is the bias and the weakness of the human mind.

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  Reality, Justice, Mind

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