Claire Messud Quotes

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• It's the strangest thing about being human: to know so much, to communicate so much, and yet always to fall so drastically short of clarity, to be, in the end, so isolate and inadequate. Even when people try to say things, they say them poorly or obliquely, or they outright lie, sometimes because they're lying to you, but as often because they're lying to themselves.

  Claire Messud

  Lying, Fall, People

  FaceBook post by Claire Messud from Aug 10, 2016

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• Anyway, these books I love, they’re all books by men—every last one of them. Because if it’s unseemly and possibly dangerous for a man to be angry, it’s totally unacceptable for a woman to be angry. I wanted to write a voice that for me, as a reader, had been missing from the chorus: the voice of an angry woman.

  Claire Messud

  Book, Writing, Men

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• Above all, in my anger, I was sad. Isn't that always the way, that at the heart of the fire is a frozen kernel of sorrow that the fire is trying -- valiantly, fruitlessly -- to eradicate.

  Claire Messud

  Heart, Fire, Sorrow

  FaceBook post by Claire Messud from Sep 04, 2014

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• I've discovered over the years that the simplest explanation is almost always the right one; and that hunger of one kind or another - desire, by another name - is the source of almost every sorrow.

  Claire Messud

  Years, Names, Sorrow

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.55, Vintage

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• That's so her. You know, torn between Big Ideas and a party. She's always been that way.

  Claire Messud

  Party, Ideas, Way

  FaceBook post by Claire Messud from Jan 20, 2013

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• Geniuses have the shortest biographies.

  Claire Messud

  Genius, Biographies

  Claire Messud (2015). “The Emperor's Children: Picador Classic”, p.288, Pan Macmillan

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• If you’re reading to find friends, you’re in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities. The relevant question isn’t ‘Is this a potential friend for me?’ but ‘Is this character alive?'

  Claire Messud

  Reading, Character, Alive

  "Would You Want to Be Friends With Humbert Humbert?: A Forum on 'Likeability'". www.newyorker.com. May 16, 2013.

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• The more accurately one can illuminate a particular human experience, the better the work of art.

  Claire Messud

  Art, Human Experience, Humans

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• There's a reason why trainspotters are not girls, there's a reason why there's the myth of the slightly autistic male genius, there's a reason why Gertrude Stein believed that her self-presentation was male. One could argue that was Susan Sontag also. The things that we associate with femaleness are not the single-minded, exclusive pursuit of a vocation, whether it be art or anything else. It is not a model that is widespread in our culture, it's not something we think of for women.

  Claire Messud

  Girl, Art, Thinking

  Source: www.guernicamag.com

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• Life's funny. You have to find a way to keep going, to keep laughing, even after you realize that none of your dreams will come true. When you realize that, there's still so much of a life to get through.

  Claire Messud

  Dream, Laughing, Way

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.153, Vintage

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• We read to find life, in all its possibilities.

  Claire Messud

  Possibility

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• I was funny -- ha-ha, not peculiar. It was a modest currency, like pennies: pedestrian, somewhat laborious, but a currency nonetheless. I was funny, in public, most often at my own expense.

  Claire Messud

  Peculiar, Pennies, Currency

  FaceBook post by Claire Messud from Sep 07, 2014

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• When you are the woman upstairs, nobody thinks of you first. Nobody calls you before anyone else, or sends you the first postcard. Once your mother dies, nobody loves you “best of all.” It's a small thing, you might think, and maybe it depends on your temperament, maybe for some people it's a small thing, but for me [...]

  Claire Messud

  Mother, Love You, Thinking

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• Nobody would know me from my own description of myself; which is why, when called upon (rarely, I grant) to provide an account, I tailor it, I adapt, I try to provide an outline that can, in some way, correlate to the outline that people understand me to have -- that, I suppose, I actually have, at this point. But who I am in my head, very few people really get to see that. Almost none. It's the most precious gift I can give, to bring her out of hiding.

  Claire Messud

  Who I Am, People, Giving

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.24, Vintage

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• But do you know this idea of the imaginary homeland? Once you set out from shore on your little boat, once you embark, you'll never truly be at home again. What you've left behind exists only in your memory, and your ideal place becomes some strange imaginary concoction of all you've left behind at every stop.

  Claire Messud

  Memories, Home, Ideas

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.118, Vintage

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• Popular success is a wonderful gift if it happens, but like money, it's not the motivation. The effort to create a work of art that is true and potentially lasting, that is the very best work of art you can create at that point in your life - a book that may only reach or move a few people but will seem to people somehow transformative. That's the ideal; that's always the motivation.

  Claire Messud

  Art, Motivation, Moving

  Source: www.slate.com

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• The apartment was entirely, was only, for her: a wall of books, both read and unread, all of them dear to her not only in themselves, their tender spines, but in the moments or periods they evoked… Her self, then, was represented in her books; her times in her records; and the rest of the room she thought of as a pure, blank slate.

  Claire Messud

  Wall, Book, Self

  FaceBook post by Claire Messud from Aug 23, 2012

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• It doesn't ever occur to you, as you fashion your mask so carefully, that it will grow into your skin and graft itself, come to seem irremovable.

  Claire Messud

  Fashion, Skins, Mask

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.25, Vintage

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• I measure my life out in books." "You should be measuring your life by living. Correction: you shouldn't be measuring your life. What's the point?

  Claire Messud

  Book, Should, Measuring

  Claire Messud (2015). “The Emperor's Children: Picador Classic”, p.463, Pan Macmillan

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• To my mind, Guernica is the most important online intellectual and literary journal in America today.

  Claire Messud

  America, Intellectual, Mind

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• If you’re reading to find friends, you’re in deep trouble.

  Claire Messud

  Reading, Trouble, Ifs

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• But we're lost in a world of appearances now.

  Claire Messud

  World, Appearance, Lost

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.9, Vintage

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• I always thought I'd get farther. I'd like to blame the world for what I've failed to do, but the failure - the failure that sometimes washes over me as anger, makes me so angry I could spit - is all mine, in the end. What made my obstacles insurmountable, what consigned me to mediocrity, is me, just me. I thought for so long, forever, that I was strong enough -- or I misunderstood what strength was.

  Claire Messud

  Strong, Long, Forever

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.20, Vintage

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• We live in a culture that wants to put a redemptive face on everything, so anger doesn't sit well with any of us. But I think women's anger sits less well than anything else. Women's anger is very scary to people, and to no one more than other women who think: Oh, goodness, well, if I let the lid off, where would we be?

  Claire Messud

  Thinking, People, Scary

  "Unacceptable Anger From 'The Woman Upstairs'". "All Things Considered" with Jacki Lyden, www.npr.org. May 19, 2013.

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• As my wise friend Didi has more than once observed about life's passages, every departure entails an arrival elsewhere, every arrival implies a departure from afar.

  Claire Messud

  Wise, Departure, Afar

  Claire Messud (2013). “The Woman Upstairs”, p.61, Vintage

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