God put self-pity by the side of despair like the cure by the side of the disease.
Choice! The key is choice. You have options. You need not spend your life wallowing in failure, ignorance, grief, poverty, shame, and self-pity. But hold on! If this is true then why have so many among us apparently elected to live in this manner? The answer is obvious. Those who live in unhappy failure have never exercised their options for a better way of life because they have never been aware that had any choices
Self-pity is the campsite of self-defeat; it is a dark refuge for those parts of us that would rather wallow in what cannot be than dare to explore what is possible.
Anger, resentment, envy, and self-pity are wasteful reactions. They greatly drain one's time. They sap energy better devoted to productive endeavors.
People sinking into self-pity and depression are dreary, but they can't get out of it by themselves. So every now and then, just sit there and listen, and listen, and listen. You're paying your membership dues in the human race.
I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.
I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself
Being Lutheran, Mother believed that self-pity is a deadly sin and so is nostalgia, and she had no time for either
Honesty is as rare as a man without self-pity.
Self-pity comes so naturally to all of us.
Suffering... We owe to it all that is good in us, all that gives value to life; we owe to it pity, we owe to it courage, we owe to it all the virtues.
One must have the adventurous daring to accept oneself as a bundle of possibilities and undertake the most interesting game in the world -- making the most of one's best.
Optimism and self-pity are the positive and negative poles of modern cowardice.
Self-pity comes so naturally to all of us. The most solid happiness can be shaken by the compassion of a fool.
Pity is best taught by fellowship in woe.
If it weren't the problem of politics for me, it would be another. And yet, sometimes it's so difficult. And I feel sorry for myself. And then hate myself for this feeling of self-pity.
More helpful than all wisdom is one draught of simple human pity that will not forsake us.
Self-pity is like chocolate; as you get older, you can only afford a little bit.
It is only a step from boredom to disillusionment, which leads naturally to self-pity, which in turn ends in chaos.
Pity the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Self-pity? I see no moral objections to it, the smell drives people away, but that's a practical objection, and occasionally an advantage.
Selfishness is one of the more common faces of pride. 'How everything affects me' is the center of all that matters-self-conceit, self-pity, worldly self-fulfillment, self-gratification, and self-seeking.
Laughter is the great antidote for self-pity, maybe a specific for the malady, yet probably it does tend to dry one's feelings out a little, as if by exposing them to a vigorous wind.
I don't go in for being sorry for people. For one thing it's insulting. One is only sorry for people when they're sorry for themselves. Self-pity is one of the biggest stumbling blocks in the world today.
Sympathy is never waisted except when you give it to yourself.
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