Don't think or judge, just listen.
The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen.
Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open- hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand.
Music is the great uniter. An incredible force. Something that people who differ on everything and anything else can have in common.
Know how to listen, and you will profit even from those who talk badly.
Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens.
To listen closely and reply well is the highest perfection we are able to attain in the art of conversation.
The first duty of love is to listen.
A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something.
Because this is what happens when you try to run from the past. It just doesn’t catch up, it overtakes … blotting out the future.
It is the province of knowledge to speak, and it is the privilege of wisdom to listen.
A loving silence often has more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention
You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.
Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.
This is what happens when you try to help people. You get screwed.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story people often interrupted her to tell her that they once had something just like that happen to them. Subtly her pain became a story about themselves. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. It was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care. Many people with cancer talk about the relief of having someone just listen.
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention And especially if it's given from the heart. When people are talking, there's no need to do anything but receive them. Just take them in. Listen to what they're saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don't value ourselves or our love enough to know this.
Just Listen an excerpt
There are people who, instead of listening to what is being said to them, are already listening to what they are going to say themselves.
It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of super sophisticated communication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners.
Listening is not merely not talking...it means taking a vigorous human interest in what is being told to us.
To listen fully means to pay close attention to what is being said beneath the words. You listen not only to the 'music,' but to the essence of the person speaking. You listen not only for what someone knows, but for what he or she is. Ears operate at the speed of sound, which is far slower than the speed of light the eyes take in. Generative listening is the art of developing deeper silences in yourself, so you can slow our mind's hearing to your ears' natural speed, and hear beneath the words to their meaning.
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