When one is a stranger to oneself then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others. Only when one is connected to one's own core is.
We are always bargaining with our feelings so that we can live from day to day.
The nice thing about really intelligent people is that when you talk with them they make you feel intelligent too.
Perhaps this is the most important thing for me to take back from beach-living: simply the memory that each cycle of the tide is valid; each cycle of the wave is valid; each cycle of a relationship is valid.
It is a difficult lesson to learn today-to leave one's friends and family and deliberately practice the art of solitude for an hour or a day or a week. And yet, once it is done, I find there is a quality to being alone that is incredibly precious. Life rushes back into the void, richer, more vivid, fuller than before.
For sleep, one needs endless depths of blackness to sink into; daylight is too shallow, it will not cover one.
Only in growth, reform, and change, paradoxically enough, is true security to be found.
And one perfect day can give clues for a more perfect life.
When the heart is flooded with love there is no room in it for fear, for doubt, for hesitation.
One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. One can collect only a few, and they are more beautiful if they are few.
Marriage should, I think, always be a little bit hard and new and strange. It should be breaking your shell and going into another world, and a bigger one.
The best marriages, like the best lives, were both happy and unhappy. There was even a kind of necessary tension, a certain tautness between the partners that gave the marriage strength, like the tautness of a full sail. You went forward on it.
Women need solitude in order to find again the true essence of themselves.
One must lose one's life to find it.
Fame separates you from life.
Woman must come of age by herself. This is the essence of 'coming of age'-to learn how to stand alone. She must learn not to depend on another, nor to feel she must prove her strength by competing with another. In the past, she has swung between these two opposite poles of dependence and competition, of Victorianism and Feminism. Both extremes throw her off balance; neither is the center, the true center of being a whole woman. She must find her true center alone. She must become whole.
Arranging a bowl of flowers in the morning can give a sense of quiet in a crowded day - like writing a poem or saying a prayer.
The ball of rumor and criticism, once it starts rolling, is difficult to stop.
there is no aristocracy of grief. Grief is a great leveler.
To me there is something completely and satisfyingly restful in that stretch of sea and sand, sea and sand and sky - complete peace, complete fulfillment.
I feel we are all islands - in a common sea.
By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.
I believe that true identity is found . . . in creative activity springing from within. It is found, paradoxically, when one loses oneself. Woman can best refind herself in some kind of creative activity of her own.
One can never pay in gratitude; one can only pay 'in kind' somewhere else in life.
I am very fond of the oyster shell. It is humble and awkward and ugly. It is slate-colored and unsymmetrical. Its form is not primarily beautiful but functional. I make fun of its knobbiness. Sometimes I resent its burdens and excrescences. But its tireless adaptability and tenacity draw my astonished admiration and sometimes even my tears. And it is comfortable in its familiarity, its homeliness, like old garden gloves when have molded themselves perfectly to the shape of the hand. I do not like to put it down. I will not want to leave it.
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