Steven Petrow Quotes

• Too many people think that "good manners" are about subjugating yourself to others. Not true. Respect, and just as important, self-respect are two key elements in this equation.

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  Thinking, Keys, Self

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• Acceptance comes through understanding.

  Steven Petrow

  Acceptance, Understanding

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• There's nothing you can say that won't make you seem ungrateful or rude.

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  Ungrateful, Rude, Seems

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• A big question that we have is that we do not understand why the comfort of the few should override the comfort of the many.

  Steven Petrow

  Comfort

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• I keep reading that Donald Trump is the most pro-LGBT GOP presidential nominee of all time - and I actually think that's true.

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  Reading, Thinking, Presidential

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Rely on facts, figures, principles of equality and fairness.

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  Principles, Facts, Fairness

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• The murkiness of Donald Trump's position is really what distinguishes him from other Republican nominees and contenders who have been steadfast in their opposition to LGBTQ equality.

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  Republican, Trump, Steadfast

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Cross-dressing is more of a set of actions or behaviors and not synonymous with gender identity (straight, gay, bisexual, transgender, among others).

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  Gay, Bisexual, Identity

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• We need to regain the art of civil discourse and more practically, I don't think you change anyone's mind by calling them names.

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  Art, Thinking, Names

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• As for LGBTQ people supporting Donald Trump (or other Republicans), I do understand that some of them value his stances on immigration, climate change (I should say "the war on coal"), and the economy over those of equality, fairness, and justice.

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  War, Justice, People

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• A quick comeback is usually meant as license to be mean.

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  Mean, Comeback, License

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Please Mr. Trump: Say what you mean. Mean what you say.

  Steven Petrow

  Mean, Trump, Please

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Calling a trans person by their former name is referred to as "deadnaming" and is considered highly offensive to most trans people I know.

  Steven Petrow

  Names, People, Calling

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• When someone transitions you should refer to them by their new name both in the present and with references back in time.

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  Names, Transition, Should

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• I really don't understand how parents can talk about gay couples' PDA as a problem or a transgender teen's suicide and not the fact that too many of our kids are being murdered in the schools and on the streets.

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  Suicide, Couple, School

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Being LGBT is not a choice. It's not about "a sexual proclivity." It's not a "lifestyle," as you put it. It's about our identity. Pride is a time when we come together to celebrate our community and when others do, too. Just as we do for other racial, ethnic, and religious groups that are part of the "tossed salad" nature of our society.

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  Religious, Pride, Choices

  "Civilities: We'll be talking about your reactions to the Orlando massacre for the full hour". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. June 21, 2016.

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• You know, my goal is not to convince you that I'm right or that you're wrong. About homophobia. Gun violence. Racism. Whatever the issue. I'm really trying hard with you - and others - to have a respectful discussion, debate about these issues.

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  Gun, Issues, Racism

  "Civilities: We'll be talking about your reactions to the Orlando massacre for the full hour". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. June 21, 2016.

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• I'll tell you what gives me hope. After the struggle for marriage equality, the LGBTQ community has built some very powerful organizations; in particular, I'm thinking of HRC (the Human Rights Campaign), GLAAD... but there are many, many others, too. Along with those organizations come some savvy and tested leaders who have come to understand not only how to change hearts and minds but also legislators and judges votes.

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  Powerful, Struggle, Heart

  "Civilities: We'll be talking about your reactions to the Orlando massacre for the full hour". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. June 21, 2016.

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• Most pedophiles are straight not gay.

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  Gay

  "Civilities: We'll be talking about your reactions to the Orlando massacre for the full hour". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. June 21, 2016.

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• To parents who find a child's disclosure about sexual or gender identity challenging, I always urge what I'd call "moderated" honesty. If you can't say "I love you," then say something like, "I'm going to need some time to digest this news." Buy time this way. And then think.

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  Children, Honesty, Love You

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• Every generation seems to have its members who think the world has gone to hell and a hand basket and that they need to explain a challenging world to their kids.

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  Kids, Thinking, Hands

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• I know many of my female friends do not like being referred to as "ladies."

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  Female, Knows, Female Friends

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• What really surprised me was that more than half of all deaths by gunshot are suicides, more than 20,000 a year, about 58 a day.

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  Suicide, Years, Half

  "Civilities: Steven Petrow answers all your LGBT and straight social dilemmas for the hour". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. September 13, 2016.

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• More people use guns to kill themselves than to kill others.

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  Gun, People, Use

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• I think identity issues have their place in the workplace, less so personal behaviors.

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  Thinking, Issues, Identity

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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