Tonya Hurley Quotes

• You can't have it both ways. Love is too powerful to hide for very long. Deny it and suffer the consequences. Acknowledge it and suffer the consequences. Revealing it can either be shameful or it can be liberating. It is for others to decide which it will be.

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  Powerful, Love Is, Long

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• A true friend is someone who is always there for you, with no agenda other than the friendship itself. We rely on our friends to lift us up in bad times, to keep us grounded in good times, but most importantly, to be there for us when we need nothing at all.

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  True Friend, Needs, Agendas

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Homecoming”, p.20, Hachette UK

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• The only reason to live is to love and the only reason to love is to live.

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  Love Is, Reason, Reason To Love

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• We all have ideas about love and death. We keep a close eye out for them our entire lives, seeking one and avoiding the other, knowing all the while that both are mostly beyond our control. It is a both scary and exciting predicament. In the end, it all depends on how you look at it. One thing is for sure; it is never quite what you expect.

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  Eye, Ideas, Knowing

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Lovesick”, p.178, Hachette UK

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• The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.

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  Feels, Success Or Failure, Depends

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Lovesick”, p.47, Hachette UK

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• We all like to think the world ends when we do. The truth is our acquaintances, our friends, and our loved ones all live on, and through them, so do we. It's not about what you had, but what you gave. It's not about how you looked, but how you lived. And it's not just about being remembered. It's about giving people a good reason to remember you.

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  Inspiration, Thinking, Remember You

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl”, p.163, Hachette UK

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• We are often so distracted by the internal war between what we want to do and what we have to do that we overlook what we need to do.

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  War, Needs, Want

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• Someone can have the best intentions,' Markov said, 'but offering the wrong advice, the wrong help at the wrong time, can be worse than not helping at all.

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  Offering, Advice, Helping

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• Being in love with someone who doesn't even know you exist isn't the worst thing in the world. In fact, it's quite the oppostie. Almost like passing in a term paper that you know sucked, but having that period of time where you haven't gotten your grade back yet -- that kind of exhale where you haven't been rejected, although you pretty much know how it's going to turn out.

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  Being In Love, Term Paper, World

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• If you expect nothing, you can never be disappointed.

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  Disappointment, Expectations, Expect Nothing

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• I never understood why you tried so hard to fit in, when you were obviously meant to stand out.

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  Fit, Standing Out, Understood

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• friends are like stars. You do not see all the time, but you know they are there

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  Friendship, Best Friend, Stars

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• Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep. And if I should die before I awake, I pray the popular attend my wake.

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  Death, Sleep, Soul

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• Sometimes it's the things that are all around us that are hardest to see, especially love.

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  Sometimes, Hardest

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• If you want sympathy, look for a friend, but if you want honesty, an enemy might be the best friend you ever had.

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  Honesty, Enemy, Looks

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• Talk is cheap. If it wasn't, people might not toss around 'I love you' like a marked-down phrase in a sales bin.

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  Love You, People, Phrases

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• Just as love blinds us to imperfections in others, it magnifies those we see in ourselves. But if this is true, then the opposite must also be the case. We can take comfort in the fact that our faults will be invisible to those who love us. The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.

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  Opposites, Imperfection, Comfort

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• Some people live their lives as if each day will be their last. Some approach love the same way, in a desperate attempt to outrun the tiny changes
  or huge ones that are always looming on each of our horizons. But the sense of urgency that comes from wanting to experience life and love to the
  fullest can force decisions that are not always in your best interests or anyone else's, for that matter. In fact, sometimes facing the consequences of
  your choices can be even worse than death. You may live only once, but you don't necessarily want it to feel like forever.

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  Life And Love, People, Choices

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Lovesick”, p.11, Hachette UK

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• We all want to be stars. The idea of being revered and envied must be encoded somewhere deep in our DNA. So must the desire to revere and envy others we imagine to be better, more accepted, and more popular than we are. The only problem is that the most necessary qualities required to be a celebrity -- self-absorption, egomania, shamelessness -- are the least attractive in a friend.

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  Stars, Dna, Self

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• Breaking free, or not, is usually determined by whether you want to get somewhere slowly or nowhere fast.

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  Want, Determined, Breaking Free

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Lovesick”, p.132, Hachette UK

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• The truth is, those people we feel drawn to most might not be intended as love interests, but rather as life-changing, life-altering presences that come into our lives for reasons we can't yet understand.

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  Life Changing, People, Might

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Lovesick”, p.70, Hachette UK

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• If you expect nothing, you can never be disappointed. Apart from a few starry-eyed poets or monks living on a mountaintop somewhere, however, we all have expectations. We not only have them, we need them. They fuel our dreams, our hopes, and our lives like some super-caffeinated energy drink.

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  Dream, Expectations, Energy

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl: Homecoming”, p.10, Hachette UK

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• Issues are like assholes, we've all got one," Pam snipped.

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  Issues

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl”, p.45, Hachette UK

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• You did what your heart told you to do,' Brain complimented. 'It is what leaders, not followers, do.

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  Leadership, Heart, Brain

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• You never think it will happen to you. You think about what it would be like. You go through it over and over in your mind, changing the scenario slightly each time, but deep down, you don't really believe it would ever happen, because it's something that happens to someone else, not to you.

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  Believe, Thinking, Mind

  Tonya Hurley (2012). “Ghostgirl”, p.9, Hachette UK

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