It would be hard to name a more certain sign of poor self-esteem than the need to perceive some other group as inferior.
When people are not accepting toward themselves they are often obsessed with acceptance by others.
Persons of high self-esteem are not driven to make themselves superior to others; they do not seek to prove their value by measuring themselves against a comparative standard. Their joy is being who they are, not in being better than someone else.
If you are terrified of making mistakes, you will be reluctant to acknowledge them when you do make them-and therefore you will not correct them.
The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.
You have a right to your feelings. Your feelings are there to tell you something, but they are not infallible guides to behavior.
There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity.
It is very difficult to accept in others emotions you cannot accept in yourself.
If you are an adult, you are responsible for your life and well-being. No one owes you the fulfillment of your needs or wants; no one is here on earth to serve you. If you respect the principle of self-ownership, you understand that no one else owns you and that you do not own anyone else. Only on this understanding can there be peace on earth and good will among human beings.
How do we keep our inner fire alive? Two things, at minimum, are needed: an ability to appreciate the positives in our life – and a commitment to action. Every day, it's important to ask and answer these questions: ‘What's good in my life?’ and ‘What needs to be done?
Self-esteem is not a luxury; it is a profound spiritual need.
A bully hides his fears with fake bravado. That is the opposite of self-assertiveness.
Either you will make your life work, or your life will not work.
Feel deeply to think clearly.
A commitment to lifelong learning is a natural expression of the practice of living consciously.
Integrity is congruence between what you know, what you profess, and what you do.
Self-acceptance is my refusal to be in an adversarial relationship to myself.
The more you surrender to the fear of someone's disapproval, the more you lose face in your own eyes, and the more desperate you become for someone's approval. Within you is a void that should have been filled by self-esteem. When you attempt to fill it with the approval of others instead, the void grows deeper and the hunger for acceptance and approval grows stronger. The only solution is to summon the courage to honor your own judgment, frightening though that may be in the beginning.
It is impressive to see a person who has been battered by life in many ways, who is torn by a variety of unsolved problems, who may be alienated from many aspects of the self-but who is still fighting, still struggling, still striving to find the path to a fulfilling existence, moved by the wisdom of knowing, "I am more than my problems."
The lies most devastating to our self-esteem are not so much the lies we tell as the lies we live.
Every day, it's important to ask and answer these questions: "What's good in my life?" and "What needs to be done?"
Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves.
Your choices have psychological consequences. The way you choose to deal with reality, truth, facts - your choice to honor or dishonor your own perceptions - registers in your mind, for good or for bad, and either confirms and strengthens your self-esteem or undermines and weakens it.
If my aim is to prove I am 'enough,' the project goes on to infinity-because the battle was already lost on the day I conceded the issue was debatable.
Out of fear, out of the desire for approval, out of the misguided notions of duty, people surrender themselves-their convictions and their aspirations-every day. There is nothing noble about it. It takes far more courage to fight for your values than to relinquish them.
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