Magda Gerber Quotes About Children

Quotes about: Children

• We not only respect babies, we demonstrate our respect every time we interact with them. Respecting a child means treating even the youngest infant as a unique human being, not as an object

  Magda Gerber

  Baby, Children, Mean

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Childhood is not a race to see how quickly a child can read, write and count. It is a small window of time to learn and develop at the pace that is right for each individual child. Earlier is not better.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Writing, Race

• I wish children could grow according to their natural pace: sleep when sleepy, wake up when rested, eat when hungry, cry when upset, play and explore without being unnecessarily interrupted; in other words, be allowed to grow and blossom as each was meant to.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Sleep, Play

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Remember, nobody can make another person fall asleep. How to relax and let sleep come is a skill your child, like everybody else, must learn all by herself.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Fall, Sleep

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Every baby moves with more ease and efficiency if allowed to do it at his own time and in his own way, without our trying to teach him. A child who has always been allowed to move freely develops not only an agile body but also good judgment about what he can and cannot do.

  Magda Gerber

  Baby, Children, Moving

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• What parents teach is themselves, as models of what is human - by their moods, their reactions, their facial expressions and actions. These are the real things parents need to be aware of, and of how they affect their children. Allow them to know you, and it might become easier for them to learn about themselves.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Real, Expression

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• All children accomplish milestones in their own way, in their own time.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Way, Milestone

• A positive goal to strive for when disciplining would be to raise children we not only love, but in whose company we love being.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Love Is, Goal

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Let the child be the scriptwriter, the director and the actor in his own play.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Play, Directors

• Children raised with respect and inner direction tend to play well in groups, at times quite peacefully, each involved in her own project or involved with the other chidren.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Play, Groups

• Allow the child to be authentic, to move, to feel the way they move, appreciating them for what they are.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Moving, Appreciate

• As I say so often, “Observe and wait.” Sometimes you may even find out that what you believed the infant wanted was only your assumption. It is natural to make mistakes and easy to misunderstand pre-verbal children. Nevertheless, it is important to keep trying

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Mistake, Waiting

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Wouldn't life be easier for both parents and infants if parents would observe, relax and enjoy what their child is doing, rather than keep teaching what the child is not yet capable of?

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Teaching, Parent

  Magda Gerber (1998). “Dear Parent: Caring for Infants with Respect”

• Children do not play because they learn; They play because they play.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Play

• RIE emphasizes the benefits of infants spending peaceful, uninterrupted time following their biological rhythms of falling asleep when sleepy and eating when hungry, rather than their having to adjust too soon to external schedules and unrealistic expectations. First, we have to let the child develop his own rhythm; and then later he can adjust more into adult life.

  Magda Gerber

  Children, Fall, Expectations

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