Susan Minot Quotes

• Hope is a terrible thing, she said. Is it? Yes, it keep you living in another place, a place which doesn't exist. For some people it's better than where they are. For many it's a relief. From life, she said. A relief from life? Is that living? Some people don't have a choice. No and that's awful for them. Hope is better than misery, he said. Or despair. Hope belongs in the same box as despair. Hope is not so bad, he said. At least despair has truth to it.

  Susan Minot

  People, Choices, Despair

  FaceBook post by Susan Minot from Dec 16, 2013

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• She thought of how much people changed you. It was the opposite of what you always heard, that no one could change a person. It wasn't true. It was only through other people that one ever did change.

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  Opposites, People, Changed

  FaceBook post by Susan Minot from Feb 24, 2013

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• Desire suppressed finds its way into other more surreal settings, into dreams.

  Susan Minot

  Dream, Desire, Way

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• Did people ever stop changing? They surprised you with fresh pain. Sometimes they surprised you with happiness, but the pain was the sharper surprise. There was no way to protect yourself from it. People could always change and always hurt you. Of course it went in the other direction too, you could hurt them when you didn't intend it and that too was out of your control.

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  Hurt, Pain, People

  Susan Minot (2010). “Evening”, p.195, Vintage

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• The word dysfunction has, I think, served its purpose and now has lost its meaning. Every family, like every person, is imperfect, after all. The idea that there is a family somewhere who functions, is an odd concept. In my youth I was running from my family to try to find out who I was-their influence distracted me. Now I see what a powerful hold they have, no matter what.

  Susan Minot

  Running, Powerful, Thinking

  "Author Q&A". Penguin Random House Interview, www.penguinrandomhouse.com.

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• There are aspects of love that I once undervalued. Kindness. Having a sort of honor when love is on the table.

  Susan Minot

  Kindness, Love Is, Honor

  "Susan Minot's Torrid World of Individual Desire" by Will Blythe, www.elle.com. January 28, 2014.

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• Between children and parents there is a difficulty of seeing each other simply as people.

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  Children, People, Parent

  "Author Q&A". Interview, www.penguinrandomhouse.com. September 7, 1999.

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• Boy poison - a boy's kisses were like a poison, which infected you and after you were exposed you craved more, like an addict.

  Susan Minot

  Kissing, Boys, Poison

  FaceBook post by Susan Minot from Feb 24, 2013

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• Recording a scene with paint rather than film sinks you more deeply into your surroundings. You have to look a little harder and a little longer. And you end up with a memento.

  Susan Minot

  Looks, Littles, Film

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• Off the packed trail we experience the miracle of corn snow, skiing atop the crust, like skiing on an eggshell that has been sprinkled with sugar.

  Susan Minot

  Sports, Snow, Miracle

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• There is no good reason. Don't waste your life waiting for good reasons...You'll wait and wait.

  Susan Minot

  Waiting, Waste, Reason

  FaceBook post by Susan Minot from Aug 04, 2013

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• Illness can make us behave in the most surprising ways.

  Susan Minot

  Way, Illness, Behave

  "Author Q&A". Interview, www.penguinrandomhouse.com. September 7, 1999.

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• Change and renewal are themes in life, arent they? We keep growing throughout life.

  Susan Minot

  Growing, Renewal, Theme

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• I first travelled to Africa at the end of 1996 and was immediately captivated. I had planned on a three-week trip, and I ended up staying two months.

  Susan Minot

  Two, Three, Months

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• Painting keeps me occupied in those moments when travel can be aimless and even disorienting. Mainly it is a way to register at least some of the new impressions of a foreign place, when its thrilling barrage can sometimes overwhelm you.

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  Way, Painting, Sometimes

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• I learned that if you love a boy you are no longer free. The boy may become more important than your own self and if it is so, you will find trouble there. The first time you are hurt in your heart, you do not forget the lesson. It stays forever.

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  Hurt, Heart, Boys

  Susan Minot (2014). “Thirty Girls”, p.167, Vintage

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• A struggle, to the person experiencing it, is a struggle.

  Susan Minot

  Struggle, Persons

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• I would have fallen in love with you anywhere.

  Susan Minot

  Love You, Fallen

  Susan Minot (2010). “Evening”, p.160, Vintage

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• When a person you love moves by you with flat eyes that will not see you, it is a shock to believe it.

  Susan Minot

  Believe, Moving, Eye

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• After she was gone there would be no one who knew the whole of her life. She did not even know the whole of it! Perhaps she should have written some of it down...but really what would have been the point in that? Everything passed, she would too. This perspective offered her an unexpected clarity she nearly enjoyed, but even with this new clarity the world offered no more explanation for itself than it ever had.

  Susan Minot

  Should Have, Perspective, Would Be

  Susan Minot (2010). “Evening”, p.17, Vintage

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• ...[She] felt as if she were both a stranger to herself and more herself than she'd ever been.

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  Stranger, Felt, Ifs

  Susan Minot (2010). “Evening”, p.17, Vintage

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• ...it occurred to her how some people continued through no design of one's own to be in one's life while others might initially enter in a sort of blaze and seem to change everything but then might not stay around.

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  People, Design, Might

  Susan Minot (2010). “Evening”, p.131, Vintage

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• After the briskness of loving, loving stops. And you roll over with death stretched out alongside you like a feather boa, or a snake, light as air, and you... you don't even ask for anything or try to say something to him because it's obviously your own damn fault. You haven't been able to- to what? To open your heart. You open your legs but can't, or don't dare anymore, to open your heart.

  Susan Minot

  Heart, Snakes, Light

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• [The director's idea for the film was:] A young American or English girl goes to Tuscany to visit English expatriates. She is on a mission to lose her virginity. That's a mission easily accomplished, if that's the only mission. The story had to be more complicated than that. Because there is so little happening dramatically, there had to be something to keep you curious.

  Susan Minot

  Girl, Ideas, Directors

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